(super secret optional bonus) step 3:
Imagine something lighthearted, playful and funny… Maybe even a bit flirty, and let yourself relax, think about it, and enjoy it for a bit before you text him. Allow yourself to get in a lighthearted flirty mood. Then, when you’re feeling great (and just a little bit naughty), type out that text. It’ll come across to him in a big way.
Step 4:
If you skipped step 3 (like a doofus ), and you’re feeling relaxed and in control (like a doofus ), write him the text.
That’s it! When you get your emotions totally under control before you text him, there won’t be any stress, fear, or worry that leaks into the text itself.
That way, he can tell that you’re honestly OK with whether he texts back or not, and it takes all the pressure off him in his mind.
He’s not instinctively thinking, “Ahh crap, if I don’t say the right thing here she’s going to blow up, what does she want?” he’s thinking, “Oh, she is cool and not desperate for me to write her back. That’s cool. Ironically, I want her even more now.”
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